Stacey’s good friend Nick has posted something on social media that she finds offensive. The comments on Nick’s post are turning ugly. What is the best way for Stacey to respond to her friend?

Stacey should contact Nick privately to discuss the post. A call or text gives her a chance to explain why she found it offensive without escalating the argument in the public comments. Agreeing just to preserve the friendship avoids the issue, while responding publicly could make the conflict worse.

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